When a man visits a waxing studio for a male Brazilian wax, both he and the waxing therapist are suddenly vulnerable.
For this reason, waxing studios have policies for acceptable behaviour in place, both for you and your therapist.
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Andrew Thompson
Standard Rules of Behaviour
Wherever you go for your manzilian, you'll be expected to act with courtesy, dignity, and respect. In the same vein, your therapist will have a professional duty of care to keep you safe and protect your dignity.
These rules assume that the waxing studio you've chosen doesn't provide happy endings. It's rare to find one that does, and in some countries, it's illegal. More on that topic further down the page.
Rules for the waxing therapist
- Let the client undress in private and prepare for their Manzilian wax.
- Leave them with wet wipes and a bin so they can ensure their butt crack is clean.
- Don't ask the client to get into humiliating positions, e.g. on all fours.
- Don't talk about your sex life or relationships to new clients.
- Don't be provocative or a tease.
- Don't compliment clients on their genitalia.
- Don't hit on or try to hook up with the client.
- Don't offer the client a hand job, oral, or sex.
- Don't take longer than necessary applying after-wax lotion at the end.
Rules for the waxing client
- Don't come to your appointment drunk or smelling of alcohol.
- Don't wear a cock ring or erection enhancer of any kind.
- Don't come soaking in sweat from the gym or sports.
- If possible, shower before your treatment.
- Unless advertised, don't ask them to provide hand relief.
- Don't touch or stroke your genitals during treatment.
- Don't masturbate in the treatment room after your treatment.
Extra rules if your therapist is female
When the therapist is female, clients will usually be expected to wear disposable underwear for their manzilian wax treatment.
You will also have to hold the skin of your penis and scrotum tight so she doesn't have to touch them. Some unisex studios might not be that prudish but it's definitely the norm.
Finally, your therapist is only doing her job. She sees men's junk all day. Your's isn't special, and she's not remotely excited to see it.
- Don't ask if she gets a Brazilian wax herself.
- Don't flirt or start inappropriate conversations.
- Don't ask about her private life or relationships.
- Don't force an erection or deliberately throb.
- Don't 'accidentally' brush against her body.
- Don't expose your genitals unnecessarily before or after treatment.
- Don't cyber-stalk her on social media.
- Don't hang around the shop waiting for her shift to end.
- Don't ask for her private number so you can book with her directly.
Happy Endings
If the waxing studio also provides happy endings after your wax, you can expect that fact to be clearly stated in their marketing. Never assume it. For clients visiting my studio, hand jobs are conditional.
Most guys just come here for a wax. They're already anxious. I consider it my duty to protect their modesty as best I can. It would be creepy if I offered them hand jobs, so I don't. Therefore, don't wait for me to offer because I won't.
With that said, I do realise that some guys hope for a sympathy toss if they're close to explosion at the end. Again I won't offer, but if you ask the question, I generally don't mind. Here's the deal:
- If you're under 18 - no
- If you give off sleazy vibes - no
- If you're some random I've never met - no
- If you're a regular with whom I enjoy mutual respect, and who asks politely - yes
I'll never offer. You have to ask. Like any sex work, there's a fee. It's $49. You have 90 seconds.
If you want something less rushed, book a Sensual Massage.
